Loving Myself As I Love My Kids

During my first few years as a parent, I bought into the idea that I was supposed to love my kids more than anything else. I heard and read the words of other parents: “My life had no meaning before I had kids. Now my life makes sense.” “I never knew love before.” “All I wantContinue reading “Loving Myself As I Love My Kids”

Envy is a Clue…

I used to look at other peoples’ creative work and feel SO envious that I hadn’t done that work myself: “I could’ve done that! I wish I had.” (Keri Smith’s Book “Wreck This Journal”) “Oooh, she’s so funny I can’t stand it!” (The Ugly Volvo) “Guuuh, such an awesome mix of mysticism and art.” (KimContinue reading “Envy is a Clue…”

Brainstorm/Braincalm

Whenever I get into the state of creative overwhelm, I think, “I have so many ideas and they’re all pretty good and I don’t know which to pick ahhh!!!!!!” So then I do NONE of the ideas. 🙂 I’m doing my best to work within creative overwhelm, and I think the antidote to it couldContinue reading “Brainstorm/Braincalm”

Harvesting Flowers

Dahlias are a wonderful and magical plant: if you want the plant to produce more flowers, you harvest the flowers. For every bloom you cut, two more pop up in its place. Creative ideas work the same way. When we have ideas for projects, artworks, essays, novels, we’re often tempted to hold on to them,Continue reading “Harvesting Flowers”